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How Do We Face Loss With Dignity?

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How Do We Face Loss With Dignity? mentions Ficciones by Jorge Luis Borges, Beloved by Toni Morrison, The Last White Man by Send Hamid, and Gilgamesh with timestamps, quotes, and episode context.

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Ficciones
Jorge Luis Borges

Borges is for me, in a sense, the most technologically current writer I can possibly think of.

Beloved
Toni Morrison

I would recommend Toni Morrison's Beloved as a book that I think many people have read.

There are people I love right now who are in a lot of pain these days, and nothing I've read gave me more access to them or felt like it did than thi…

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In his latest work, “The Last White Man,” the award-winning writer Mohsin Hamid imagines a world that is very like our own, with one major exception: On various days, white people wake up to discover that their skin is no longer white. It’s a heavy premise, but one of Hamid’s unique talents as a novelist is his ability to take on the most difficult of topics — racism, migration, loss — with a remarkably light touch. “How do you begin to have these conversations in a way that allows everybody a way in?” Hamid asks at one point in our conversation. “How do you talk about these things in a way that’s open to everyone?” What sets Hamid apart is his capacity to do just that — both in his fiction and in our conversation. We discuss: How Hamid experienced what it was like to lose his whiteness after 9/11 What happens to a society when suddenly we can’t sort ourselves by race The origins of modern humans’ fear of death — and how to overcome it Why Hamid thinks future humans will look back at the idea of borders with moral horror Why Hamid believes that pessimistic realism is a “deeply conservative” worldview Hamid’s process for imagining optimistic futures Why Hamid believes that the very notion of the self is a fiction Why we turn to activities like sex, drugs and meditation when we get overwhelmed How America’s policies toward immigrants and refugees should challenge our “heroic” sense of national identity What Toni Morrison taught Hamid about how to read and write And more. Mentioned: "The Metamorphosis" by Franz Kafka Exit West by Mohsin Hamid Book Recommendations: Beloved by Toni Morrison Ficciones by Jorge Luis Borges The Epic of Gilgamesh, translated by Andrew George Thoughts? Guest suggestions? Email us at [email protected]. You can find transcripts (posted midday) and more episodes of “The Ezra Klein Show” at nytimes.com/ezra-klein-podcast, and you can find Ezra on Twitter @ezraklein. Book recommendations from all our guests are listed at https://www.nytimes.com/article/ezra-klein-show-book-recs. “The Ezra Klein Show” is produced by Annie Galvin and Rogé Karma; fact-checking by Michelle Harris, Mary Marge Locker and Kate Sinclair; original music by Isaac Jones; mixing by Sonia Herrero and Isaac Jones; audience strategy by Shannon Busta. Special thanks to Kristin Lin and Kristina Samulewski.
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Ficciones
Jorge Luis Borges

The host emphasizes the significance of Jorge Luis Borges' work, particularly 'Ficciones', in understanding narrative…

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Beloved
Toni Morrison

The host mentions 'Beloved' as a beautifully written novel that addresses America's historical reckoning with slavery…

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The Last White Man
Send Hamid

The host discusses the deeper themes of loss and pain in 'The Last White Man' by Mohsin Hamid, suggesting that the bo…

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Gilgamesh

The host mentions 'Gilgamesh' to highlight its significance in understanding our shared cultural history alongside ot…

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The Metamorphosis
Franz Kafka

The host discusses the significance of Kafka's 'The Metamorphosis' in relation to modernist literature and its reflec…

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Andrews' father

The host discusses the character of Andrews' father, who embodies the struggle of accepting mortality while imparting…

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Exit West

The host mentions 'Exit West' to explore the theme of migration as a fundamental human feature, emphasizing that all…

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  • Referenced books include Ficciones by Jorge Luis Borges and Beloved by Toni Morrison.
  • The strongest audience signal points to Readers interested in literature and narrative theory and Readers interested in American literature and historical narratives..

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Deep Dive(4)Highly Recommended(3)
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Readers interested in literature and narrative theoryReaders interested in American literature and historical narratives.Readers interested in exploring themes of loss and human experience.Readers interested in literary history and cultural studiesReaders interested in modernist literature and its relevance to contemporary issues.Readers interested in philosophical reflections on mortality and legacy

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Ficciones
Jorge Luis Borges
Best for Readers interested in literature and narrative theoryOften cited around importance of reading and writing

Ficciones is highlighted for its exploration of representation, mirrors, and forking narratives, relevant to contemporary technological discussions.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in literature and narrative theory
Key quote: Borges is for me, in a sense, the most technologically current writer I can possibly think of.
The host emphasizes the significance of Jorge Luis Borges' work, particularly 'Ficciones', in understanding narrative structures and representation. They argue that Borges' insights are remarkably relevant to contemporary discussions about technology and storytelling.
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Beloved
Toni Morrison
Best for Readers interested in American literature and historical narratives.Often cited around Toni Morrison's influence

Beloved is recommended as a beautifully haunting novel that addresses America's reckoning with its racial and slavery past.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in American literature and historical narratives.
Key quote: I would recommend Toni Morrison's Beloved as a book that I think many people have read.
The host mentions 'Beloved' as a beautifully written novel that addresses America's historical reckoning with slavery. They highlight its sophisticated structure and the impact it has had on readers and writers alike.
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Best for Readers interested in exploring themes of loss and human experience.Often cited around themes in The Last White

The Last White Man is described as a kind of Sufi novel about love, transcendence, and the death of whiteness, exploring themes of connection among four people.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Readers interested in exploring themes of loss and human experience.
Key quote: There are people I love right now who are in a lot of pain these days, and nothing I've read gave me more access to them or felt like it did than this book.
The host discusses the deeper themes of loss and pain in 'The Last White Man' by Mohsin Hamid, suggesting that the book transcends its title and explores more profound human experiences. He reflects on how the book provides insight into the pain of loved ones, making it relatable and impactful.
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Best for Readers interested in literary history and cultural studiesOften cited around importance of cultural history

Gilgamesh is noted for its importance in understanding shared cultural history and its conversation with works like the Odyssey and the Bible.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in literary history and cultural studies
Key quote: I think it's very worthwhile to read Gilgamesh.
The host mentions 'Gilgamesh' to highlight its significance in understanding our shared cultural history alongside other foundational texts. They argue that reading it can reveal the interconnectedness of human narratives across time and cultures.
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Best for Readers interested in modernist literature and its relevance to contemporary issues.Often cited around modernist literature and technology

Kafka's story is of enormous significance, reflecting a technological moment that inspired its themes of alienation and transformation.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Readers interested in modernist literature and its relevance to contemporary issues.
Key quote: But what felt interesting to me about the metamorphosis, was it felt almost like it wasn't a magical transformation, but it was instead something that, that was inspired by a technological moment.
The host discusses the significance of Kafka's 'The Metamorphosis' in relation to modernist literature and its reflection on societal changes. They draw parallels between Kafka's time and the current technological moment, emphasizing how literature can respond to cultural and scientific shifts.
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Best for Readers interested in philosophical reflections on mortality and legacyOften cited around pessimism and acceptance

In the book, there's the character of Andrews' father, who's ill and dying, trying to pass on to his son how to die well and what it means.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Readers interested in philosophical reflections on mortality and legacy
Key quote: And in the book, for example, there's the character of Andrews' father, who's, who's ill and who is dying and whose mission in a way, is to try to somehow pass on to his son, how you die well.
The host discusses the character of Andrews' father, who embodies the struggle of accepting mortality while imparting wisdom to the next generation. This exploration highlights the importance of passing on meaningful insights about life and death, contrasting it with a sense of defeatism.
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Best for Readers interested in migration, human rights, and social justice.Often cited around migration and human movement

When I was writing the novel Exit West, I was thinking about migration and how it's sort of a fundamental human feature.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Readers interested in migration, human rights, and social justice.
Key quote: When I was writing the novel Exit West, I was thinking about migration and how it's sort of a fundamental human feature.
The host mentions 'Exit West' to explore the theme of migration as a fundamental human feature, emphasizing that all humans are, in a sense, migrants. They draw parallels between historical and contemporary issues of enforced geographical limits and the moral implications of restricting movement.
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Ficciones cover
Mentioned at 1:15:39
Ficciones
Jorge Luis Borges

The host emphasizes the significance of Jorge Luis Borges' work, particularly 'Ficciones', in understanding narrative structures and representation…

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Beloved cover
Mentioned at 1:12:31
Beloved
Toni Morrison

The host mentions 'Beloved' as a beautifully written novel that addresses America's historical reckoning with slavery. They highlight its sophistic…

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The Last White Man cover
Mentioned at 1:11:50
The Last White Man
Send Hamid

The host discusses the deeper themes of loss and pain in 'The Last White Man' by Mohsin Hamid, suggesting that the book transcends its title and ex…

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