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The Ezra Klein ShowFeb 19, 2021

What It Means to be Kind in a Cruel World

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Notable books mentioned: The Braindead Megaphone by George Saunders, Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders, A Swim in the Pond in the Rain by George Saunders, Hope Against Hope by Nadezhda Mandelstam

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George Saunders

Ezra Klein mentions 'The Braindead Megaphone' to highlight how George Saunders' work has profoundly impacted his understanding of media. He emphasi…

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Lincoln in the Bardo
George Saunders

Ezra Klein highlights George Saunders' profound influence on his thinking, particularly through his works like 'Lincoln in the Bardo.' The mention…

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A Swim in the Pond in the Rain
George Saunders

The host discusses George Saunders' new book, 'A Swim in the Pond in the Rain,' which explores seven short stories by Russian masters and the insig…

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What It Means to be Kind in a Cruel World mentions The Braindead Megaphone by George Saunders, Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders, A Swim in the Pond in the Rain by George Saunders, and Hope Against Hope by Nadezhda Mandelstam with timestamps, quotes, and episode context.

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George Saunders is one of America’s greatest living writers. He’s the author of dozens of critically acclaimed short stories, including his 2013 collection, “Tenth of December”; his debut novel, “Lincoln in the Bardo,” won the 2017 Booker Prize; and his nonfiction work has empathy and insight that leave pieces from more than a decade ago ringing in my head today. His most recent book, “A Swim in A Pond in the Rain,” is a literary master class built around seven Russian short stories, analyzing how they work, and what they reveal about how we work. I’ve wanted to interview Saunders for more than 15 years. I first saw him talk when I was in college, and there was a quality of compassion and consideration in every response that was, well, strange. His voice doesn’t sound like his fiction. His fiction is bitingly satirical, manic, often unsettling. His voice is calm, kind, gracious. The dissonance stuck with me. Saunders’s central topic, literalized in his famous 2013 commencement speech, is about what it means to be kind in an unkind world. And that’s the organizing question of this conversation, too. We discuss the collisions between capitalism and human relations, the relationship between writing and meditation, Saunders’s personal editing process, the tension between empathizing with others and holding them to account, the promise of re-localizing our politics, the way our minds deceive us, Tolstoy’s unusual theory of personal transformation, and much more. What a pleasure this conversation was. So worth the wait. Recommendations: "Red Cavalry" by Isaac Babel "Stamped from the Beginning" by Ibram X. Kendi "Dispatches" by Michael Herr "Patriotic Gore" by Edmund Wilson "In Love with the World" by Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche "Loving; Living; Party Going" by Henry Green "Scrambled Eggs & Whiskey" by Hayden Carruth "Tropic of Squalor" by Mary Carr "They Lift Their Wings to Cry" by Brooks Haxton "The Hundred Dresses" by Eleanor Estes and Louis Slobodkin "Caps for Sale" by Esphyr Slobodkina You can find transcripts (posted midday) and more episodes of "The Ezra Klein Show" at nytimes.com/ezra-klein-podcast, and you can find Ezra on Twitter @ezraklein. Thoughts? Guest suggestions? Email us at [email protected]. “The Ezra Klein Show” is produced by Rogé Karma and Jeff Geld; fact-checking by Michelle Harris; original music by Isaac Jones; mixing by Jeff Geld.
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Readers interested in media, kindness, and literatureReaders interested in literature that explores kindness and human connection.Readers interested in literature and personal growthReaders interested in historical memoirs and mental resilienceReaders interested in impactful short stories and narrative techniques.Readers interested in exploring the depth of human experience through literature.

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Best for Readers interested in media, kindness, and literatureOften cited around George Saunders' influence

It's a book of his nonfiction essays. It came out long ago. But it has changed how I think about media to this day.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in media, kindness, and literature
Key quote: The Braindead Megaphone is a book of his nonfiction essays.
Ezra Klein mentions 'The Braindead Megaphone' to highlight how George Saunders' work has profoundly impacted his understanding of media. He emphasizes the kindness and wisdom present in Saunders' writing, which resonates with his own values.
ASIN: 159448256X
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Lincoln in the Bardo
George Saunders
Best for Readers interested in literature that explores kindness and human connection.Often cited around George Saunders' literary impact

His novel is just a remarkable piece of work.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in literature that explores kindness and human connection.
Key quote: The thing about Saunders' work to me is always that there is a kindness and a wisdom to it.
Ezra Klein highlights George Saunders' profound influence on his thinking, particularly through his works like 'Lincoln in the Bardo.' The mention of this book underscores Saunders' exploration of kindness and humanity, which resonates deeply with Klein's own values.
ASIN: 8954653421
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A Swim in the Pond in the Rain cover
Best for Readers interested in literature and personal growthOften cited around George Saunders' new book

His new book is about seven short stories by Russian masters and about what he took from them.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Readers interested in literature and personal growth
Key quote: His new book, A Swim in the Pond in the Rain, is about seven short stories by Russian masters and about what he took from them and how the stories work on a basic level, but then also what kinds of habits of mind they reflect.
The host discusses George Saunders' new book, 'A Swim in the Pond in the Rain,' which explores seven short stories by Russian masters and the insights they provide about literature and life. This book reflects Saunders' ongoing preoccupation with kindness and wisdom in human interactions.
ASIN: 1526624281
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Hope Against Hope
Nadezhda Mandelstam
Best for Readers interested in historical memoirs and mental resilienceOften cited around literature and mental health

It's this beautiful memoir about the Stalinist time.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Readers interested in historical memoirs and mental resilience
Key quote: it's this beautiful memoir about the Stalinist time.
The host mentions 'Hope Against Hope' as a way to reflect on the current challenging times by drawing parallels to historical suffering. This memoir serves as a reminder that while times may be tough, they could be worse, providing a perspective that helps maintain mental balance.
ASIN: 110190836X
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Red Cavalry
Isaac Babel
Best for Readers interested in impactful short stories and narrative techniques.Often cited around importance of fiction

A book of short stories about the Russian invasion of Poland after the revolution, considered a stylistic masterpiece.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in impactful short stories and narrative techniques.
Key quote: I think it was probably a red cavalry by the Russian writer Isaac Babel.
The host mentions 'Red Cavalry' as a significant influence on their understanding of short stories and narrative depth. They highlight its stylistic mastery and its impact on their perception of storytelling, particularly in relation to historical events.
ASIN: 0393324230
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Dead Souls cover
Best for Readers interested in exploring the depth of human experience through literature.Often cited around importance of fiction

A book that captures the feeling of being alive, revisited for its profound impact.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Readers interested in exploring the depth of human experience through literature.
Key quote: I go back to Google's dead souls a lot, just because I love it so much.
The host mentions 'Dead Souls' as a significant work that captures the essence of being alive, reflecting on its profound impact on their understanding of life. They revisit the book frequently, seeking to grasp the reasons behind its resonance with them.
ASIN: 0679776443
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Stamped from the Beginning cover
Best for Individuals seeking to understand racial issuesOften cited around life-changing books

A life-changing book that the speaker has given out multiple times.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Individuals seeking to understand racial issues
Key quote: A life-changing book that the speaker has given out multiple times.
The host emphasizes the transformative impact of 'Stamped from the Beginning' and its importance in understanding racial history. They have personally shared this book with others, indicating its value in sparking meaningful conversations.
ASIN: 1984859439
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Dispatches
Michael Herr
Best for Readers interested in war literature and emotional storytelling.Often cited around Vietnam War literature

A beautifully written work about Vietnam that captures different mind states.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in war literature and emotional storytelling.
Key quote: I really love dispatches by Michael hair, which is the great, uh, Vietnam work.
The host mentions 'Dispatches' as a significant work that captures the complexities of the Vietnam War experience. They appreciate the author's ability to convey varying emotional states and perspectives throughout the narrative.
ASIN: 0679735259
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Patriotic Gore
Edmund Wilson
Best for Readers interested in literary history and cultural analysis.Often cited around book recommendations

A series of sketches of 19th-century literary figures, evoking a vanished world.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in literary history and cultural analysis.
Key quote: it's just a really beautiful evocation of, of a world that was totally as real as ours that has vanished.
The host mentions 'Patriotic Gore' as a significant recommendation from Michael, who influenced his writing. The book offers a rich exploration of 19th-century literary figures, providing insight into a cultural moment that feels both real and elusive.
ASIN: 0393312569
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In Love with the World
Mingyur Rinpoche
Best for Readers interested in Buddhism and personal growthOften cited around favorite work on Buddhism

A book that skillfully presents basic ideas about Buddhism through a narrative pilgrimage.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in Buddhism and personal growth
Key quote: I really loved and I loved it because it, it did that work of kind of jolting me to attention, uh, was a book by Mingyur Rinpoche called in love with the world.
The host mentioned 'In Love with the World' by Mingyur Rinpoche as a recent read that jolted him to attention. He appreciates how the book skillfully integrates basic Buddhist ideas in a way that feels alive and urgent.
ASIN: 0525512543
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Scramble Legs and Whiskey cover
Best for people new to poetryOften cited around recommendation for poetry

A collection of accessible, emotional, and funny poems.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: people new to poetry
Key quote: he has a beautiful book called, uh, scramble legs and whiskey, just a real, real accessible, emotional, funny poems.
The host mentions 'Scramble Legs and Whiskey' by Hayden Carruth as a beautiful and accessible collection of poems that resonate emotionally and humorously. This recommendation is aimed at those who may not often read poetry but are looking for something relatable and engaging.
ASIN: 1556591101
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Tropic of Squalor cover
Best for Readers looking for accessible poetryOften cited around recommendations for poetry

A lovely book of poetry recommended for its emotional resonance.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Readers looking for accessible poetry
Key quote: Mary Carr, uh, has a lovely book called Tropic of Squalor.
The host briefly mentions 'Tropic of Squalor' by Mary Carr as a recommendation for accessible and emotional poetry. This mention is part of a larger discussion about poetry that resonates with personal experience.
ASIN: 0062699830
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They Lift Their Wings to Cry cover
Best for Readers looking to explore accessible and emotionally resonant poetry.Often cited around recommendation of poetry books

A recommended poetry book that communicates directly with the reader's experience.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers looking to explore accessible and emotionally resonant poetry.
Key quote: I think I would also recommend, uh, the work of two of my colleagues. Mary Carr, uh, has a lovely book called Tropic of Squalor and in Brooke Brooks Haxton has one called they lift their wings to cry.
The host mentions Brooks Haxton's book 'They Lift Their Wings to Cry' as a recommendation for those who may not often read poetry. They emphasize the importance of poetry that speaks directly to personal experiences and communicates deeper meanings effectively.
ASIN: 0307268454
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The Hundred Dresses cover
Best for parents looking for meaningful children's literatureOften cited around children's book recommendations

A great short story about empathy and perception, recommended for children.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: parents looking for meaningful children's literature
Key quote: it's a great story. It's a great short story actually about, uh, a little girl who's, who's, uh, perceived one way. And then we find out that it was very different actually behind the scenes.
The host mentions 'The Hundred Dresses' as a powerful story that fosters empathy in children. They highlight its depth and the importance of understanding different perspectives, making it a valuable read for young audiences.
ASIN: 0152052607
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Caps for Sale cover
Best for Parents looking for children's booksOften cited around children's book recommendations

A playful children's book about a cap seller, recommended for its simplicity and fun.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Parents looking for children's books
Key quote: I also like, I used to love this book with our kids called caps for sale.
The host mentioned 'Caps for Sale' as a playful and goofy children's book that he enjoyed reading with his kids. He highlighted the delight in language found in children's literature, contrasting it with adult literature.
ASIN: 0064431436
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A Swim in a Pond in the Rain cover
Best for Aspiring writers and literature enthusiastsOften cited around masterclass on writing

A book that offers a masterclass on writing, reading, and life through Russian literature.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Aspiring writers and literature enthusiasts
Key quote: your book is a swim in a pond in the rain in which four Russians give a masterclass on writing, reading and life.
The host mentions 'A Swim in a Pond in the Rain' as a valuable resource that provides insights into writing, reading, and life through the lens of Russian literature. This book is highlighted for its ability to communicate profound truths about writing and storytelling.
ASIN: 1984856030
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