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Modern WisdomMar 7, 2026

#1068 - Dr Peter Salerno - How Narcissists Hijack Your Brain

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#1068 - Dr Peter Salerno - How Narcissists Hijack Your Brain mentions modern wisdom reading list, The Genetic Lottery by Catherine Page Harden, Original Sin by Catherine Page Harden, and The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides with timestamps, quotes, and episode context.

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If you are looking for new reading suggestions look no further than the modern wisdom reading list it is 100 books that you should read before you di…

The Genetic Lottery
Catherine Page Harden

I had Catherine Page Harden. On the show yesterday, are you familiar with her?

Original Sin
Catherine Page Harden

her new book is Original Sin, and it's all about how people's behavior is influenced by their genes, especially maladaptive, antisocial behavior, rob…

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Dr Peter Salerno is a social psychologist, professor, and researcher. Why are narcissists so manipulative? At some point in your life, you’ve probably encountered a narcissist. They can take control of a situation so subtly that before you realize it, you’re caught under their influence. So how can you spot a narcissist early, and what can you do to protect yourself from their manipulation? Expect to learn why people repeatedly tend to hurt others deliberately, which parts of the brain are actually involved in empathy and self-control, why the idea that “hurt people hurt people” is so attractive, why narcissists often pull someone close and then suddenly push them away, how to spot when flirting or drama turn into manipulation, if someone can be genuinely in emotional pain and still choose to hurt others and much more…
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The Genetic Lottery
Catherine Page Harden

The host discusses the influence of genetics on personality disorders, particularly narcissism, contrasting it with t…

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Original Sin
Catherine Page Harden

The host mentions 'Original Sin' to highlight the genetic influences on behavior, particularly in relation to narciss…

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The Silent Patient
Alex Michaelides

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Best for Readers seeking impactful literatureOften cited around reading suggestions

The modern wisdom reading list is 100 books that you should read before you die, featuring interesting, life-changing, and impactful books with descriptions and purchase links.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers seeking impactful literature
Key quote: If you are looking for new reading suggestions look no further than the modern wisdom reading list it is 100 books that you should read before you die.
The host mentions the 'modern wisdom reading list' as a valuable resource for those seeking impactful literature. He emphasizes that it includes life-changing books along with descriptions and purchasing links, making it accessible for readers.
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The Genetic Lottery
Catherine Page Harden
Best for Mental health professionals and researchersOften cited around causes of personality disorders

Catherine Page Harden wrote the Genetic Lottery, and her new book is Original Sin, and it's all about how people's behavior is influenced by their genes, especially maladaptive, antisocial behavior.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Mental health professionals and researchers
Key quote: I had Catherine Page Harden. On the show yesterday, are you familiar with her?
The host discusses the influence of genetics on personality disorders, particularly narcissism, contrasting it with the common belief that such traits stem solely from childhood adversity. They reference Catherine Page Harden's book, 'The Genetic Lottery,' to emphasize the role of DNA in shaping behavior.
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Original Sin
Catherine Page Harden
Best for Mental health professionals and researchersOften cited around causes of narcissism

Catherine Page Harden wrote the Genetic Lottery, and her new book is Original Sin, and it's all about how people's behavior is influenced by their genes, especially maladaptive, antisocial behavior.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Mental health professionals and researchers
Key quote: her new book is Original Sin, and it's all about how people's behavior is influenced by their genes, especially maladaptive, antisocial behavior, robbing, stealing, lying, abuse.
The host mentions 'Original Sin' to highlight the genetic influences on behavior, particularly in relation to narcissism and personality disorders. This book provides a counter-narrative to the common belief that childhood adversity is the primary cause of such traits.
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The Silent Patient
Alex Michaelides
Best for Therapists and psychology studentsOften cited around transference and countertransference

The speaker mentions learning about transference and counter transference from reading 'The Silent Patient', which features a therapist trying to get a patient to speak.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Therapists and psychology students
Key quote: I learned that you know interestingly and I'm grinning because it's one of the few things that I've learned from reading chick novels I read the silent patient by alex michael ladies.
The host mentions 'The Silent Patient' to illustrate the concept of transference and countertransference in therapy. They reflect on how they learned about these concepts from a popular thriller rather than traditional academic sources.
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I had Catherine Page Harden. On the show yesterday, are you familiar with her?
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The Genetic Lottery
Catherine Page Harden

The host discusses the influence of genetics on personality disorders, particularly narcissism, contrasting it with the common belief that such tra…

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Original Sin cover
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Original Sin
Catherine Page Harden

The host mentions 'Original Sin' to highlight the genetic influences on behavior, particularly in relation to narcissism and personality disorders.…

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Limitless

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Chris Hemsworth did a documentary about his health and he found out that he's got a couple of relatively rare mutations that predispose him to Alzheimer's.