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What I Wish I Knew in My 20s

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This is the exact advice I wish someone had told me.

You wrote the defining book.

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This is a conversation you need to hear, packed with life advice that will change your future. It’s what Mel wishes she knew in her 20s and the insight helping her guide her kids right now. Today, Mel sits down with Dr. Meg Jay. Dr. Jay is a clinical psychologist, professor, and bestselling author of THE book about your 20s: The Defining Decade. The New York Times called Dr. Jay "the patron saint" of 20-somethings, and today, you’re getting a coaching session with her. This episode is a wake up call, one backed by research and real-life stories, that will help you stop panicking, start problem-solving, and take control of your future, no matter what age you are. In this episode, you’ll learn: -The best advice no one ever told you about your 20s -The biggest mistakes most people make in work and love—and how to avoid them -Why 30 is not the new 20—and what’s actually at stake when you wait to “figure it out later” -Exactly what to do to support any 20 something in your life -Specific advice for college students and parents of college students Whether you’re in your 20s, wish you’d done them differently, or love someone going through them, this episode gives you the wisdom and tools you need to build the life you want. The truth is that no matter what decade of your life you are in, you can make it the best one – and this advice will help you do it. For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you liked the episode, check out this one next: Feeling Lost in Your 20s? You Need to Hear This Connect with Mel: Get Mel’s #1 bestselling book, The Let Them Theory Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast Instagram Mel's TikTok Sign up for Mel’s personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-free Disclaimer
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Best for Individuals in their 20s and their mentorsOften cited around navigating your 20s

In your new bestselling book, The 20-Something Treatment, you say, let's clear something up. Contrary to what popular culture and social media may suggest, your 20s are probably not going to be the best years of your life.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Individuals in their 20s and their mentors
Key quote: This is the exact advice I wish someone had told me.
The host mentions 'The 20-Something Treatment' to emphasize the importance of understanding and navigating the challenges faced in one's 20s. Dr. Meg Jay's insights are presented as essential advice that the host wishes she had during her own 20s.
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Best for 20-somethings and their mentorsOften cited around importance of 20s

The book is referenced in relation to adult development and how the advice given to 20-somethings applies to all ages.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: 20-somethings and their mentors
Key quote: You wrote the defining book.
The host emphasizes the significance of the 20s and expresses a desire to share Dr. Meg Jay's insights with young adults in her life. She believes that the advice in 'The Defining Decade' is crucial for making the most of this formative period.
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This is the exact advice I wish someone had told me.
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The host emphasizes the significance of the 20s and expresses a desire to share Dr. Meg Jay's insights with young adults in her life. She believes…

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