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The Mel Robbins PodcastFebruary 15, 2024
Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist (New Research From World-Leading Expert Dr. Ramani)
About This Episode
Today’s episode is a masterclass in narcissism. If you want to know how to protect yourself from a narcissist, you first have to know how to identify one. You’ll learn the top 10 personality traits to look for, how to handle a narcissist in your life (that you can’t avoid), the difference between ‘love bombing’ and infatuation, and a whole lot more. Joining Mel today is Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and one of the world’s leading experts on narcissism. Her mastery of all things narcissism has made her the #1 most requested guest on The Mel Robbins Podcast. Dr. Ramani has been researching this topic for over 20 years and is here to give you the wisdom, practical advice, and well-researched tools and tricks to navigate what is one of the most unpredictable experiences: being in a relationship with a narcissist. According to Dr. Ramani, 1 in 5 people has narcissist traits, which means you know (and may love) someone who is a narcissist. After you listen, you’ll know what to do. For more resources, including links to Dr. Ramani’s book, website, and social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page. Follow Mel: Get Mel’s free 29-page workbook to make this your best year Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast Instagram Mel's TikTok Sign up for Mel’s newsletter Disclaimer
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Books Mentioned
It's Not You
Dr. Romani Diversola
“Dr. Romani is here to talk about her brand new book entitled, It's Not You, which includes new research and insights on healing from narcissistic relationships.”
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The Narcissism Epidemic
Keith Campbell, Gene Twenge
“Dr. Keith Campbell's work on narcissism is highlighted, particularly his book 'The Narcissism Epidemic' which suggests that narcissism was on the rise back in 2012.”
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“The discussion revolves around the patterns of narcissism described in the new book, 'It's Not You?', which helps people understand relationships with narcissists.”
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“The speaker mentions the concept in the book related to narcissistic relationships and love bombing.”
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