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6 Surprising Signs of Adult ADHD

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The risk for self-harm and suicide attempts is four times higher for girls with ADHD than girls without.

Driven to Distraction
Dr. Ned Hollowell

We can bring on Dr. Amen, who has scanned all the brains and can tell you why so many people with ADHD seek a dopamine dump rush from overspending or…

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More and more adults are being diagnosed with ADHD, so today, we are unpacking the 6 surprising signs of ADHD. I also tell you why so many women, in particular, go undiagnosed. This episode is deeply personal, but my story is shared by so many women. I lived my entire life with symptoms of ADHD and crushing anxiety because of it. But I was never diagnosed until the age of 47—and I found out by fluke! So in this episode, I go deep into what ADHD is: a neurological disorder that affects the brain structurally and chemically. I explain the signs and the science behind what is going on in your brain to help you live a better life. If you ever wondered if you have ADHD, if you feel like menopause is making it worse, or if you struggle with anxiety, an eating disorder, or low self-esteem, you have to listen. All these might be symptoms of ADHD. This episode goes way beyond an inability to focus, because ADHD is so much more. This is an education in how your brain works, how focus works, and how to help yourself or someone in your life who may have ADHD. I’ve been wanting to record this episode for MONTHS, but I didn’t want to do it until I had first-class resources for you. Because every time I talk about my ADHD story, we get an avalanche of questions from listeners. I have regrets about that lost time when I did not know I had ADHD, and I don’t want you to have them, too. Today you’ll learn: *why women have been profoundly underdiagnosed *four key differences between genders with ADHD *why my diagnosis was both a blessing and a curse *the surprising way most women find out *six symptoms of ADHD that most people don’t catch *the connection between anxiety and depression and ADHD *resources and hacks to help you take charge over your symptoms Xo Mel In this episode, you’ll learn: 2:44: The surprising backdoor way I was diagnosed with ADHD. 6:30: What I learned about the “lost generation” that has blown me away. 7:45: A terrifyingly important statistic that led to this podcast episode. 9:00: The definition of ADHD that may make you feel better about yours. 10:15: Why are women underdiagnosed? The differences in symptoms. 19:30: This is how ADHD impacts your brain. 22:30: Breaking this myth about this symptom of ADHD. 24:45: A really clear metaphor to explain how your brain silences noise, or doesn’t. 32:00: How is it I have ADHD, yet I can hyper-focus? 34:00: More surprising symptoms of ADHD that might make your relationships hard. 38:00: This one hack helps me get birthday gifts for others on time. 40:00: The jobs I loved because they worked well with ADHD. 43:45: Now here’s the good news! 45:30: A predictive statistic about children that you’re going to want to hear. Disclaimer
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Dr. Ned Hollowell

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  • Referenced books include Understanding Girls with ADHD by Dr. Ellen Lipman and Driven to Distraction by Dr. Ned Hollowell.
  • The strongest audience signal points to Women who suspect they may have ADHD or have struggled with related mental health issues. and Parents of children with ADHD and adults seeking to understand their own ADHD..

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Women who suspect they may have ADHD or have struggled with related mental health issues.Parents of children with ADHD and adults seeking to understand their own ADHD.

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Best for Women who suspect they may have ADHD or have struggled with related mental health issues.Often cited around ADHD diagnosis in women

Dr. Ellen Lipman wrote the book, Understanding Girls with ADHD. The outcomes for girls are horrendously negative compared to boys because ADHD materializes dramatically differently in girls as they get older.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Women who suspect they may have ADHD or have struggled with related mental health issues.
Key quote: The risk for self-harm and suicide attempts is four times higher for girls with ADHD than girls without.
The host discusses the significant impact of misdiagnosing ADHD in women, particularly highlighting the severe outcomes for girls who are not properly diagnosed. They mention the book 'Understanding Girls with ADHD' to provide credible resources and insights into the unique challenges faced by women with this condition.
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Driven to Distraction
Dr. Ned Hollowell
Best for Parents of children with ADHD and adults seeking to understand their own ADHD.Often cited around Understanding ADHD treatment options

Dr. Ned Hollowell, who wrote Driven to Distraction, is mentioned as a leading expert in ADD research.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Parents of children with ADHD and adults seeking to understand their own ADHD.
Key quote: We can bring on Dr. Amen, who has scanned all the brains and can tell you why so many people with ADHD seek a dopamine dump rush from overspending or drinking or some of the other kind of not so great behaviors.
The host emphasizes the importance of understanding ADHD and its treatments, referencing 'Driven to Distraction' as a key resource. They believe that knowledge from this book can empower individuals to make healthier choices regarding ADHD management.
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The risk for self-harm and suicide attempts is four times higher for girls with ADHD than girls without.
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Understanding Girls with ADHD
Dr. Ellen Lipman

The host discusses the significant impact of misdiagnosing ADHD in women, particularly highlighting the severe outcomes for girls who are not prope…

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Driven to Distraction
Dr. Ned Hollowell

The host emphasizes the importance of understanding ADHD and its treatments, referencing 'Driven to Distraction' as a key resource. They believe th…

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