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Modern WisdomAug 7, 2025

#977 - Dr Robert King - Why Does The Female Orgasm Exist?

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#977 - Dr Robert King - Why Does The Female Orgasm Exist? mentions Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to the Whole of Creation by Olivia Judson, The Female Orgasm by Elizabeth Lloyd, This Is Your Brain on Birth Control by Sarah Hill, and Talking About Happiness by Gad Saad with timestamps, quotes, and episode context.

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Olivia Judson, an evolutionary biologist, wrote a book where she adopts the persona of an agony aunt, providing witty and well-informed responses to…

The Female Orgasm
Elizabeth Lloyd

The book told me that female orgasm did nothing, had no function, and to say I was surprised would be an understatement.

it's this massive experiment we've done on a huge amount of the population without an awful lot of control on it.

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Dr Robert King is a psychologist, professor at University College Cork, and researcher on the evolutionary function of female orgasm. What makes the female orgasm so mysterious? For generations, men across the globe have sought to decipher it, and many women share their curiosity as well. So why does the female orgasm even exist? What’s its evolutionary purpose? And have scientists like Dr. Robert King finally cracked the code? Expect to learn what most people don’t understand about the female orgasm, why women have multiple orgasms and men don’t, the biggest predictors of the female orgasm, how much female desire of men is driven by other female’s desire of those men, what women want in men sexually, if penis size and length are as bog of factors as men tend to think, if there are similarities in reproductive anatomy across males and females, and much more…
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Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to the Whole of Creation
Olivia Judson

The host highlights Olivia Judson's unique approach to explaining complex evolutionary concepts through humor and rel…

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The Female Orgasm
Elizabeth Lloyd

The host mentions 'The Female Orgasm' by Elizabeth Lloyd as a pivotal book that sparked their interest in evolutionar…

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This Is Your Brain on Birth Control
Sarah Hill

The host discusses the implications of hormonal birth control on women's sexual experiences and how it may affect the…

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Talking About Happiness
Gad Saad

The host references Gad Saad's book 'Talking About Happiness' to discuss the complexities of sexual relationships and…

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The Evolution of Human Sexuality
Simons

The host discusses the historical misconceptions surrounding female orgasm and highlights the pioneering work of Simo…

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Naturally Selective
Dr. Robert

The host mentions 'Naturally Selective' to highlight the complexities of sexual selection and the strategies women ma…

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The Notebook

The host discusses how 'The Notebook' serves as a commentary on the romanticization of the 'noble thug' archetype in…

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The Spandrels of St. Marcos
Steve Gould

The host mentions 'The Spandrels of St. Marcos' to illustrate Steve Gould's perspective on evolutionary theory and it…

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  • The conversation centers on BDSM elements in literature.
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  • Referenced books include Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to the Whole of Creation by Olivia Judson and The Female Orgasm by Elizabeth Lloyd.
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Readers interested in biology and humorResearchers and students in evolutionary biology and human sexualityIndividuals interested in women's health and sexual psychologyIndividuals interested in psychology and relationshipsResearchers and students in sexual health and psychologyIndividuals interested in behavioral science and sexual selection

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Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to the Whole of Creation cover
Best for Readers interested in biology and humorOften cited around evolutionary biology insights

Olivia Judson, an evolutionary biologist, wrote a book where she adopts the persona of an agony aunt, providing witty and well-informed responses to questions about evolutionary biology.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Readers interested in biology and humor
Key quote: Olivia Judson, an evolutionary biologist, wrote a book where she adopts the persona of an agony aunt, providing witty and well-informed responses to questions about evolutionary biology.
The host highlights Olivia Judson's unique approach to explaining complex evolutionary concepts through humor and relatable advice. This book serves as an engaging resource for those interested in understanding the intricacies of sex and reproduction in the animal kingdom.
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The Female Orgasm
Elizabeth Lloyd
Best for Researchers and students in evolutionary biology and human sexualityOften cited around studying female orgasm

The book told me that female orgasm did nothing, had no function, and to say I was surprised would be an understatement.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Researchers and students in evolutionary biology and human sexuality
Key quote: The book told me that female orgasm did nothing, had no function, and to say I was surprised would be an understatement.
The host mentions 'The Female Orgasm' by Elizabeth Lloyd as a pivotal book that sparked their interest in evolutionary biology and human sexuality. The book challenges the notion that female orgasm serves no function, which led the host to explore the topic further.
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This Is Your Brain on Birth Control cover
Best for Individuals interested in women's health and sexual psychologyOften cited around hormonal birth control effects

The speaker mentions reading a book titled 'This Is Your Brain on Birth Control' by Sarah Hill while discussing hormonal birth control and its effects.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals interested in women's health and sexual psychology
Key quote: it's this massive experiment we've done on a huge amount of the population without an awful lot of control on it.
The host discusses the implications of hormonal birth control on women's sexual experiences and how it may affect their orgasms. They reference 'This Is Your Brain on Birth Control' to highlight the significant yet underexplored impact of hormonal changes on female sexual mechanics.
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Talking About Happiness cover
Best for Individuals interested in psychology and relationshipsOften cited around human sexuality and relationships

The speaker recalls reading in Gad Saad's book about the right amount of sex in a relationship being just a little more than what friends are having.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals interested in psychology and relationships
Key quote: the right amount of sex that you want in your relationship is not just as much as you want but it's just a little bit more than the amount that you're friends with.
The host references Gad Saad's book 'Talking About Happiness' to discuss the complexities of sexual relationships and the societal pressures that influence them. This mention highlights the nuanced understanding of sexual satisfaction in the context of personal relationships and social hierarchies.
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The Evolution of Human Sexuality cover
Best for Researchers and students in sexual health and psychologyOften cited around female orgasm research

Simons wrote a book called The Evolution of Human Sexuality, which discussed the structure and nature of the clitoris in the 1970s.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Researchers and students in sexual health and psychology
Key quote: Starting off in the 1970s with a pioneer called Simons. He wrote a book called The Evolution of Human Sexuality.
The host discusses the historical misconceptions surrounding female orgasm and highlights the pioneering work of Simons in his book 'The Evolution of Human Sexuality'. This book serves as a foundation for understanding the complexities of female sexual response and challenges outdated theories.
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Naturally Selective cover
Best for Individuals interested in behavioral science and sexual selectionOften cited around sexual agency and manipulation

Dr. Robert mentions his book 'Naturally Selective' as a deep work, indicating its significance in his field.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals interested in behavioral science and sexual selection
Key quote: the book is a uh a really great deep work
The host mentions 'Naturally Selective' to highlight the complexities of sexual selection and the strategies women may employ in their interactions with men. This book is presented as a significant work that delves into behavioral science, which has evolved over the past 40 years.
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The Notebook cover
Best for Individuals interested in cultural analysis and gender studiesOften cited around romanticization of thugs

The excerpt references 'The Notebook' as an example of the romanticization of a certain archetype in literature, discussing its themes and character dynamics.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals interested in cultural analysis and gender studies
Key quote: The notebook's a fucking great example of this because you have a guy who is kind of good as a handyman but can't really hold down a job and is passionate but kind of loose.
The host discusses how 'The Notebook' serves as a commentary on the romanticization of the 'noble thug' archetype in popular culture. This exploration raises questions about how female desire is influenced by cultural narratives and the types of characters that are celebrated in media.
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The Spandrels of St. Marcos cover
Best for Students and scholars of evolutionary biologyOften cited around byproduct theory discussion

Steve Gould's famous paper is called The Spandrels of St. Marcos, discussing ornate structures as byproducts.

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Sentiment: Critical Analysis
For: Students and scholars of evolutionary biology
Key quote: His famous paper is called The Spandrels of St. Marcos.
The host mentions 'The Spandrels of St. Marcos' to illustrate Steve Gould's perspective on evolutionary theory and its implications. Gould's ideas are critiqued for their influence on how people understand adaptation and evolutionary biology.
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Nine and a Half Weeks cover
Best for Readers interested in gender studies and literary analysis.Often cited around female sexuality and literature

The mention of 'Nine and a Half Weeks' is part of a discussion on books with strong BDSM elements and a common plot involving sexually dominant males.

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Sentiment: Critical Analysis
For: Readers interested in gender studies and literary analysis.
Key quote: roughly every every generation um the same book basically gets published and it's it's always written um anonymously by a woman and it has the same plot which is you have a sexually dominant male.
The host discusses the recurring themes in female-centric literature, particularly those involving sexually dominant males and BDSM elements. They mention 'Nine and a Half Weeks' as part of a pattern in which women engage with narratives that both challenge and reflect societal views on female desire and power dynamics.
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Masters of Sex cover
Best for Researchers and students in human sexualityOften cited around female orgasm research

Listeners will probably have heard of Masters and Johnson because there was a TV series about them. I think it was called Masters of Sex a few years back.

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Sentiment: Critical Analysis
For: Researchers and students in human sexuality
Key quote: the essence of their research into female orgasm was to get half a dozen women, to get them to masturbate to orgasm in a lab, and they inserted a glass tube, which they called Ulysses, inside which had a camera, and they measured the results.
The host mentions 'Masters of Sex' to critique the foundational research on female orgasm conducted by Masters and Johnson. They highlight the limitations of lab-based studies and contrast it with more comprehensive research conducted in natural settings.
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Fifty Shades of Grey cover
Best for Readers interested in literary themes and character archetypes.Often cited around dominant male archetype

The excerpt discusses the recurring theme in literature where a sexually dominant male realizes he wants to commit to a female, with 'Fifty Shades of Grey' being a prominent example.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Readers interested in literary themes and character archetypes.
Key quote: 'Fifty Shades of Grey' being a prominent example.
The host mentions 'Fifty Shades of Grey' as a notable example of a common theme in literature. This theme involves a sexually dominant male character who ultimately seeks commitment with a female partner.
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Delta of Venus cover
Best for Readers interested in BDSM literatureOften cited around BDSM elements in literature

The mention of 'Delta of Venus' is part of a discussion on books with strong BDSM elements and a common plot involving sexually dominant males.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Readers interested in BDSM literature
Key quote: 'Delta of Venus' is part of a discussion on books with strong BDSM elements.
The host briefly mentions 'Delta of Venus' while discussing books that feature strong BDSM themes. This book is noted for its portrayal of sexually dominant males within its narrative.
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Emmanuelle cover
Best for Readers interested in BDSM-themed literature.Often cited around BDSM elements in literature

The mention of 'Emmanuelle' is part of a discussion on books with strong BDSM elements and a common plot involving sexually dominant males.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Readers interested in BDSM-themed literature.
Key quote: 'Emmanuelle' is part of a discussion on books with strong BDSM elements.
The host briefly mentions 'Emmanuelle' while discussing books that feature strong BDSM themes. This book is noted for its portrayal of sexually dominant males, fitting into the broader conversation about similar literature.
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Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to the Whole of Creation
Modern Wisdom · 1:17:11
Olivia Judson, an evolutionary biologist, wrote a book where she adopts the persona of an agony aunt, providing witty and well-informed responses to…
The Female Orgasm
Modern Wisdom · 0:14
The book told me that female orgasm did nothing, had no function, and to say I was surprised would be an understatement.
This Is Your Brain on Birth Control
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it's this massive experiment we've done on a huge amount of the population without an awful lot of control on it.
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Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to the Whole of Creation cover
Mentioned at 1:17:11
Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to the Whole of Creation
Olivia Judson

The host highlights Olivia Judson's unique approach to explaining complex evolutionary concepts through humor and relatable advice. This book serve…

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The Female Orgasm cover
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The Female Orgasm
Elizabeth Lloyd

The host mentions 'The Female Orgasm' by Elizabeth Lloyd as a pivotal book that sparked their interest in evolutionary biology and human sexuality.…

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This Is Your Brain on Birth Control cover
Mentioned at 1:09:08
This Is Your Brain on Birth Control
Sarah Hill

The host discusses the implications of hormonal birth control on women's sexual experiences and how it may affect their orgasms. They reference 'Th…

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50 Shades of Gray

Confidence: 90%

The mention of '50 Shades of Gray' relates to a common female fantasy depicted in literature and film, highlighting themes of dominance and submission.

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Nine and a Half Weeks

Confidence: 80%

This title is referenced as part of a pattern in literature and film that explores sexually dominant male characters and their relationships with women.

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