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Modern WisdomMay 31, 2025

#948 - Matt Abrahams - The Secret To Becoming A Confident Speaker

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Don't come in and be impressive. Come in and connect with me.

God, the, what was the book that advised people to use the first name of the person they're speaking to?

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Matt Abrahams is a communication expert, Stanford lecturer, and podcaster. Ever been put on the spot to give a quick speech, only to freeze up with nothing to say? Speaking with confidence and clarity is a skill, and the good news is, it can be learned. Today Matt Abrahams shares practical tips and tools to help you think faster, speak smarter, and become a more effective communicator. Expect to learn how to speak more confidently, why people choke when they are put on the spot and how to overcome anxiety while speaking, how having structure can actually liberate spontaneous speaking, how to avoid rambling and get to the point faster, he biggest errors people make during conversations, how to give a compelling toast with zero prep, the key ingredients of a meaningful apology, and much more…
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The Science of Storytelling
Will Storr

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How to Win Friends and Influence People
Dale Carnegie

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  • Referenced books include The Science of Storytelling by Will Storr and How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.
  • The strongest audience signal points to Writers and communicators seeking to improve their storytelling skills. and Individuals looking to improve their communication skills.

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Writers and communicators seeking to improve their storytelling skills.Individuals looking to improve their communication skills

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Best for Writers and communicators seeking to improve their storytelling skills.Often cited around reverse charisma concept

Will Storr, do you know him? He wrote The Science of Storytelling, The Status Game. So he was on the show yesterday, his new book, A Story is a Deal.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Writers and communicators seeking to improve their storytelling skills.
Key quote: Don't come in and be impressive. Come in and connect with me.
The host mentions 'The Science of Storytelling' to highlight the importance of connection over charisma in storytelling and character development. Will Storr's insights emphasize that understanding your audience is crucial for effective communication and engagement.
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Best for Individuals looking to improve their communication skillsOften cited around importance of connection

the book that advised people to use the first name of the person they're speaking to? Is it how to win friends and influence people? Yeah, Dale Carnegie definitely talked about that.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Individuals looking to improve their communication skills
Key quote: God, the, what was the book that advised people to use the first name of the person they're speaking to?
The host mentions 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' to illustrate the importance of understanding your audience in communication. This reference highlights how personal connection can enhance interactions rather than relying solely on charisma.
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The Science of Storytelling
Modern Wisdom · 33:45
Don't come in and be impressive. Come in and connect with me.
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Modern Wisdom · 36:15
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The Science of Storytelling
Will Storr

The host mentions 'The Science of Storytelling' to highlight the importance of connection over charisma in storytelling and character development.…

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How to Win Friends and Influence People
Dale Carnegie

The host mentions 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' to illustrate the importance of understanding your audience in communication. This refe…

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