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Modern WisdomAug 31, 2023

#674 - Adam Lane Smith - 17 Ugly Psychology Truths No One Wants To Admit

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I wrote this book right up here above my head. Exhausted wives, bewildered husbands for this reason is women as man, as much as crap as women get on…

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J.R.R. Tolkien, he was raised by a priest. That was his safety network.

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Adam Lane Smith is a psychotherapist and an author. Adam has helped thousands of patients and couples to deal with problems from childhood, their relationships and their sex lives. He also writes amazing Twitter threads filled with insights from his time as a therapist and today we get to go through some of my favourites. Expect to learn why having sex with a man on the first date won't make him fall in love with you, why it shouldn't be a surprise to most men when their partner divorces them, the psychological effect of relying on daycare for newborn babies, why men don't understand how female communication works, whether love or respect is more important in a relationship and much more... Extra Stuff: Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/
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  • Referenced books include Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands and Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien.
  • The strongest audience signal points to Individuals seeking to understand relationship dynamics and Individuals interested in understanding the role of relationships in personal development.

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Best for Individuals seeking to understand relationship dynamicsOften cited around relationship commitment issues

The speaker mentions writing a book titled 'Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands' to address issues related to women's loyalty and relationship dynamics.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals seeking to understand relationship dynamics
Key quote: I wrote this book right up here above my head. Exhausted wives, bewildered husbands for this reason is women as man, as much as crap as women get on the internet about no women are loyal.
The host references 'Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands' to highlight the disconnect between men and women regarding commitment in relationships. The book addresses the struggles both genders face, particularly focusing on the emotional exhaustion of women and the bewilderment of men in long-term relationships.
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Lord of the Rings
J.R.R. Tolkien
Best for Individuals interested in understanding the role of relationships in personal developmentOften cited around impact of relationships

J.R.R. Tolkien, he was raised by a priest. That was his safety network. Everything else fell through. He was still raised by a priest and brought us Lord of the Rings.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Individuals interested in understanding the role of relationships in personal development
Key quote: J.R.R. Tolkien, he was raised by a priest. That was his safety network.
The host mentions 'Lord of the Rings' to illustrate the importance of community and safety nets in one's upbringing. J.R.R. Tolkien's background is highlighted as an example of how even in difficult circumstances, strong connections can provide support.
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Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands
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Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands

The host references 'Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands' to highlight the disconnect between men and women regarding commitment in relationships.…

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Lord of the Rings
J.R.R. Tolkien

The host mentions 'Lord of the Rings' to illustrate the importance of community and safety nets in one's upbringing. J.R.R. Tolkien's background is…

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