Modern WisdomSep 28, 2023

#686 - Dr Gad Saad - 8 Strategies For Avoiding A Life You Hate

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Guest: Gad Saad

Notable books mentioned: Eight Secrets for Leading to Good Life, Determined by Robert Sapolsky, Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers by Robert Sapolsky, Why Buddhism is True by Robert Wright

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Determined

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#686 - Dr Gad Saad - 8 Strategies For Avoiding A Life You Hate mentions Eight Secrets for Leading to Good Life, Determined by Robert Sapolsky, Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers by Robert Sapolsky, and Why Buddhism is True by Robert Wright with timestamps, quotes, and episode context.

Eight Secrets for Leading to Good Life Determined Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers Why Buddhism is True

Guest: Gad Saad

Episode summary

Dr Gad Saad is an Evolutionary Psychologist, Professor of Marketing at Concordia University, a podcaster and an author. In today’s fast-paced world, happiness and contentment often seem elusive. By taking an evolutionary lens on happiness, we can gain deeper insight into why we are the way we are and decode the contributing elements to living a good life. Expect to learn where happiness comes from, why evolution cursed humans with the ability to feel existential discontent, what people get wrong about defining and understanding happiness, what role genetics plays, how to pick the right partner, whether married people are more happy on average, why more more sex equal doesn’t always equal more happiness, how you can become more anti-fragile and much more... Extra Stuff: Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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anti-fragility and creativity(1)assortative mating(1)evolutionary explanation for happiness(1)evolutionary psychiatry(1)evolutionary psychology exposure(1)evolutionary psychology insights(1)happiness and well-being(1)human stress response(1)

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Deep Dive(8)Passing Reference(3)Highly Recommended(2)

Audience signals

Individuals seeking to improve their happiness and well-beingFans of Robert Sapolsky and those interested in psychologyIndividuals interested in psychology and evolutionary biologyIndividuals interested in psychology and stress managementStudents and professionals interested in psychology and behavioral sciences.Individuals interested in psychology and human behavior

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Eight Secrets for Leading to Good Life

Best for Individuals seeking to improve their happiness and well-beingOften cited around happiness and well-being

“The speaker mentions the title of their book, which outlines eight secrets contributing to a good life based on autobiographical introspection.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: happiness and well-being

For: Individuals seeking to improve their happiness and well-being

Key quote: “I chose those... they were some of the ones that were most contributing to my life.”

The host mentions 'Eight Secrets for Leading to Good Life' to illustrate the multifactorial nature of happiness and how specific pursuits contribute to overall well-being. This book serves as a personal reflection on the factors that have positively influenced the host's life.

ASIN: B0C9VYNVJ7

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Determined

Robert Sapolsky

Best for Fans of Robert Sapolsky and those interested in psychologyOften cited around evolutionary psychiatry

“The speaker discusses Robert Sapolsky's new book about free will, which is set to be released in the middle of October.”

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Sentiment: Passing Reference

Trigger: evolutionary psychiatry

For: Fans of Robert Sapolsky and those interested in psychology

Key quote: “Sapolsky is coming on to talk about his new book, Determined.”

The host mentions Robert Sapolsky's book 'Determined' in the context of discussing human stress and happiness. This reference highlights the complexities of human emotions compared to those of prey animals, as explored in Sapolsky's work.

ASIN: 0525560998

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Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers

Robert Sapolsky

Best for Individuals interested in psychology and evolutionary biologyOften cited around evolutionary explanation for happiness

“The speaker references Sapolsky's earlier book, which discusses how prey animals handle stress compared to humans.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: evolutionary explanation for happiness

For: Individuals interested in psychology and evolutionary biology

Key quote: “Zebras. As far as we know, don't have that. And therefore they can go about peacefully grazing while we obsess over the past and the future.”

The host discusses the contrast between the stress responses of prey animals and humans, highlighting how humans often overthink and experience prolonged stress. This leads to a mention of Robert Sapolsky's book, which explores these themes in depth.

ASIN: 0805073698

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Why Buddhism is True

Robert Wright

Best for Individuals interested in psychology and stress managementOften cited around human stress response

“The speaker mentions this book as one that helped frame their understanding of happiness and the challenges of achieving it.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: human stress response

For: Individuals interested in psychology and stress management

Key quote: “For me, it gave me an odd kind of solace, I think.”

The host mentions 'Why Buddhism is True' by Robert Wright to illustrate how understanding evolutionary psychology can provide solace in the face of human stress and anxiety. The book helped the host frame the idea that humans are not inherently built for consistent happiness, which is a significant theme in their discussion about stress management.

ASIN: 1439195463

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Homicide

Martin Daly and Margot Wilson

Best for Students and professionals interested in psychology and behavioral sciences.Often cited around evolutionary psychology insights

“The speaker discusses this book, which explores patterns of criminality through an evolutionary lens, as a pivotal influence on their academic journey.”

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended

Trigger: evolutionary psychology insights

For: Students and professionals interested in psychology and behavioral sciences.

Key quote: “Where the book is titled Homicide. Where they looked at patterns of criminality around the world and across time periods.”

The host mentions 'Homicide' as a pivotal book that introduced him to evolutionary psychology, highlighting its exploration of criminality through an evolutionary lens. This book significantly influenced his academic trajectory, leading him to pursue a career in evolutionary behavioral science.

ASIN: 020201178X

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The Moral Animal

Robert Wright

Best for Individuals interested in psychology and human behaviorOften cited around evolutionary psychology exposure

“The speaker refers to this book as their coming-of-age red pill, which significantly influenced their understanding of evolutionary psychology.”

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended

Trigger: evolutionary psychology exposure

For: Individuals interested in psychology and human behavior

Key quote: “My book, my coming-of-age red pill was The Moral Animal, Robert Wright's first one.”

The host mentions 'The Moral Animal' as a pivotal book that influenced his journey into evolutionary psychology. He emphasizes its lasting impact and relevance, suggesting it shaped his understanding of human behavior and decision-making.

ASIN: B003VXI8DO

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The Singular Metric

Best for Individuals interested in evolutionary psychology and relationship dynamics.Often cited around assortative mating

“The speaker briefly mentions a concept discussed in the book related to evolutionary perspectives on assortative mating.”

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Sentiment: Passing Reference

Trigger: assortative mating

For: Individuals interested in evolutionary psychology and relationship dynamics.

Key quote: “By the way, the singular. This is this is something that I discuss. Very, very. Briefly in the book.”

The host briefly mentions 'The Singular Metric' in the context of discussing how shared belief systems and cultural backgrounds can enhance compatibility in relationships. He notes that the book touches on evolutionary perspectives related to mating preferences, specifically regarding genetic diversity.

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The Parasitic Mind

Gad Saad

Best for Individuals interested in evolutionary psychology and social dynamicsOften cited around male feminists and strategy

“In The Parasitic Mind, I talked about male feminists as an instantiation of the sneaky fucker strategy, which has since become kind of a meme.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: male feminists and strategy

For: Individuals interested in evolutionary psychology and social dynamics

Key quote: “In The Parasitic Mind, I talked about male feminists as an instantiation of the sneaky fucker strategy, which has since become kind of a meme.”

The host references 'The Parasitic Mind' to explain the concept of male feminists through the lens of evolutionary psychology. He connects this idea to broader themes of political orientation and social behavior, illustrating how these dynamics play out in relationships.

ASIN: B0899M293Y

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That's Interesting!

Davis

Best for doctoral students and researchersOften cited around research worthiness framework

“There's a 1971 paper that I think everyone should read, but it's not a paper that I think everyone should read, but it's a paper written by Davis, who was a sociologist.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: research worthiness framework

For: doctoral students and researchers

Key quote: “the title of the paper was That's Interesting! where he was offering a framework for how do you judge whether research is worthy to pursue?”

The host mentions 'That's Interesting!' to highlight a framework for evaluating the significance of research. This framework emphasizes the importance of novelty and interestingness in research, which the host believes is often overlooked in academic evaluations.

ASIN: B0GD6KCTS6

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happiness book

Best for Individuals interested in improving their relationships and overall well-being.Often cited around importance of relationships

“I do quote Robert Waldinger in my happiness book, specifically, as you know, he's the current director of the eight plus decade long Harvard Adult Development Study.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: importance of relationships

For: Individuals interested in improving their relationships and overall well-being.

Key quote: “I do quote Robert Waldinger in my happiness book.”

The host discusses the significant impact of relationships on happiness and longevity, referencing insights from Dr. Robert Waldinger. He emphasizes that having a partner can greatly enhance one's quality of life and well-being, as explored in his 'happiness book'.

ASIN: 0307591557

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JK Rowling

Best for Individuals seeking inspiration and motivation to overcome obstaclesOften cited around overcoming rejection and failure

“Mentioned as the greatest, most selling author of all time, rejected by every publisher until the last publisher accepted her.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: overcoming rejection and failure

For: Individuals seeking inspiration and motivation to overcome obstacles

Key quote: “JK Rowling greatest, most selling author of all best selling author of all time. Rejected by every publisher until the last publisher accepted her.”

The host mentions JK Rowling to illustrate the concept of anti-fragility and resilience in the face of rejection. Rowling's journey from being rejected by multiple publishers to becoming a best-selling author serves as a powerful example of perseverance.

ASIN: 9124078867

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Salvador Dali

Best for Individuals interested in art and personal developmentOften cited around anti-fragility and creativity

“The speaker adds Salvador Dali to their long list of biographies to read, indicating an interest in the subject.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: anti-fragility and creativity

For: Individuals interested in art and personal development

Key quote: “Dali is one of the most interesting people that I've researched.”

The host mentions Salvador Dali to illustrate the concept of anti-fragility, highlighting how Dali's unique life experiences shaped his eccentric personality and artistic genius. By exploring Dali's background, the host emphasizes the importance of embracing one's individuality and overcoming obstacles to achieve greatness.

ASIN: 3822872059

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The Sad Truth About Happiness

Gad Saad

Best for Individuals seeking purpose and meaning in their careersOften cited around interdisciplinary academic approach

“The speaker mentions their book, 'The Sad Truth About Happiness', while discussing the creative process and purpose in life.”

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Sentiment: Passing Reference

Trigger: interdisciplinary academic approach

For: Individuals seeking purpose and meaning in their careers

Key quote: “And so life is too short from my perspective.”

The host mentions 'The Sad Truth About Happiness' in the context of discussing the value of creativity and variety in one's career. They highlight how engaging in diverse fields can lead to a more fulfilling professional life.

ASIN: B09PLYVTYS

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