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Modern WisdomJun 11, 2022

#485 - Susan Cain - Why Sensitive People Enjoy Feeling Sad

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#485 - Susan Cain - Why Sensitive People Enjoy Feeling Sad mentions Why Buddhism Is True by Robert Wright, Emotional Agility by Susan David, The Bridges of Madison County, and Bittersweet by Susan Cain with timestamps, quotes, and episode context.

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the original reading of life is suffering by the Buddha.

She refers to that as a revolution in a notebook.

It's really a story of, a story about longing itself and that that's what the photographer represented.

Guest: Susan Cain
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Susan Cain is a best-selling author and speaker. There’s a tyranny of positivity in the modern world. Talking about emotions like longing and sorrow are not usually encouraged. And yet tons of people feel like this and hearing others tell us about their melancholy brings us closer to them, so how can we integrate bittersweet emotions into our lives and what can they teach us about ourselves? Expect to learn whether the world has become better for introverts, why sad music seems to make us happy, whether people are genetically predisposed to feeling bittersweet emotions, how to deal with impermanence in life when everyone we love is going to die, why I felt sad after looking at the moon and much more…
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Why Buddhism Is True
Robert Wright

The host references Robert Wright's book to illustrate the concept of human dissatisfaction and the nature of relatio…

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Emotional Agility
Susan David

The host discusses the concept of emotional agility as presented by Susan David, highlighting the societal pressure t…

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The Bridges of Madison County

The host discusses 'The Bridges of Madison County' to illustrate the complexities of love and longing. The story serv…

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Bittersweet
Susan Cain

The host discusses how the book 'Bittersweet' explores the interconnectedness of joy and sorrow, revealing a deeper t…

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Quiet

The host discusses the societal shift towards recognizing introversion and how it has allowed individuals to embrace…

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  • A second recurring theme is introverts and society.
  • Referenced books include Why Buddhism Is True by Robert Wright and Emotional Agility by Susan David.
  • The strongest audience signal points to Individuals seeking deeper insights into relationships and human nature. and Individuals interested in emotional well-being and mental health.

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Individuals seeking deeper insights into relationships and human nature.Individuals interested in emotional well-being and mental healthIndividuals exploring the dynamics of love and relationshipsIndividuals seeking to understand the complexity of their emotionsIndividuals exploring introversion and authenticity

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Why Buddhism Is True cover
Best for Individuals seeking deeper insights into relationships and human nature.Often cited around understanding human relationships

The mention discusses the concept of suffering in Buddhism, specifically the original reading of life as suffering and the contested translation of the term 'dukkha'.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals seeking deeper insights into relationships and human nature.
Key quote: the original reading of life is suffering by the Buddha.
The host references Robert Wright's book to illustrate the concept of human dissatisfaction and the nature of relationships. By understanding that life is inherently unsatisfactory, individuals can approach their relationships with more forgiveness and appreciation for imperfect love.
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Emotional Agility cover
Best for Individuals interested in emotional well-being and mental healthOften cited around tyranny of positivity

The speaker tells the story of Susan David, who discusses emotional agility and her experiences with grief and societal expectations of positivity.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals interested in emotional well-being and mental health
Key quote: She refers to that as a revolution in a notebook.
The host discusses the concept of emotional agility as presented by Susan David, highlighting the societal pressure to maintain a positive facade. This pressure can lead to detrimental effects on mental health, as illustrated by David's personal story of coping with her father's death.
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The Bridges of Madison County cover
Best for Individuals exploring the dynamics of love and relationshipsOften cited around longing in relationships

The excerpt discusses the story of a woman trapped in a mediocre marriage who has a passionate affair with a photographer, exploring themes of longing and imperfection in love.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals exploring the dynamics of love and relationships
Key quote: It's really a story of, a story about longing itself and that that's what the photographer represented.
The host discusses 'The Bridges of Madison County' to illustrate the complexities of love and longing. The story serves as a metaphor for understanding the imperfection in relationships and the transient nature of passionate connections.
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Bittersweet
Susan Cain
Best for Individuals seeking to understand the complexity of their emotionsOften cited around embracing true selves

The book Bittersweet is mentioned as being available anywhere you usually buy your books.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals seeking to understand the complexity of their emotions
Key quote: What I'm really talking about is joy and sorrow, though.
The host discusses how the book 'Bittersweet' explores the interconnectedness of joy and sorrow, revealing a deeper truth about human emotions. They highlight the importance of acknowledging both sides of our experiences to foster creativity and connection.
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Quiet cover
Best for Individuals exploring introversion and authenticityOften cited around introverts and society

The speaker references their previous book 'Quiet', noting the similarities in how people react to both 'Quiet' and 'Bittersweet'.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals exploring introversion and authenticity
Key quote: the more people embrace their true quiet nature, the more successful they become in the outer facing world.
The host discusses the societal shift towards recognizing introversion and how it has allowed individuals to embrace their true selves. They draw a parallel to the themes in the book 'Quiet', highlighting the importance of authenticity in personal success.
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Why Buddhism Is True
Modern Wisdom · 24:47
the original reading of life is suffering by the Buddha.
Emotional Agility
Modern Wisdom · 35:54
She refers to that as a revolution in a notebook.
The Bridges of Madison County
Modern Wisdom · 21:36
It's really a story of, a story about longing itself and that that's what the photographer represented.
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Why Buddhism Is True cover
Mentioned at 24:47
Why Buddhism Is True
Robert Wright

The host references Robert Wright's book to illustrate the concept of human dissatisfaction and the nature of relationships. By understanding that…

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Emotional Agility cover
Mentioned at 35:54
Emotional Agility
Susan David

The host discusses the concept of emotional agility as presented by Susan David, highlighting the societal pressure to maintain a positive facade.…

Direct Amazon listing · affiliate link
The Bridges of Madison County cover
Mentioned at 21:36
The Bridges of Madison County

The host discusses 'The Bridges of Madison County' to illustrate the complexities of love and longing. The story serves as a metaphor for understan…

Direct Amazon listing · affiliate link

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The Bridges of Madison County

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A story about a woman trapped in a mediocre marriage who has a passionate affair with a photographer, exploring themes of longing and emotional complexity.