#460 - Paul Millerd - The Tension Between Success And Happiness

Joseph Pieper

And his conclusion was that we kind of lost touch with this more ancient version of leisure.

Michael Gerber

There's that story from the E-Myth Revisited about a lady who starts baking cakes, I think.

Max Weber

Well, it's, it's not true everywhere, right? So there's Max Weber in his book, The Protestant Ethic.

Guest: Paul Millerd

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Paul Millerd is a strategy consultant, author and a podcaster. The old stories we were told about success and happiness no longer apply. We don't have to wear a suit or go to an office or have job for life. But do we even need success? Is there a simpler route to being happy? Paul has spent the last 5 years trying to find out. Expect to learn why the road between success and happiness might have a shortcut, how optimising for freedom gave Paul everything he wanted from his life, what the ancient Greek word for leisure tells us about the modern world, why following a "default path" is dangerous, why unplanning your work day might make you happier and much more...

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Joseph Pieper

The host references Joseph Pieper's book to explore the historical perspective on work and leisure, emphasizing how m…

Michael Gerber

The host references 'The E-Myth Revisited' to illustrate the pitfalls of ambition in entrepreneurship, using the exam…

Max Weber

The host discusses the historical perspective on work, referencing Max Weber's insights from 'The Protestant Ethic'.…

The Company of One

Paul Jarvis

The host references 'The Company of One' to emphasize the importance of aligning ambition with personal well-being. T…

Agnes Callard's

The host mentions Agnes Callard to highlight the distinction between ambition and aspiration, emphasizing that ambiti…

limits of ambition(1)solo creator path(1)solopreneur journey challenges(1)work and fulfillment(1)work and leisure balance(1)

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Referenced books include Leisure, The Basis of Culture by Joseph Pieper and The E-Myth Revisited by Michael Gerber.
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Joseph Pieper

Best for Individuals seeking a deeper understanding of work-life balance and the philosophy of leisure.Often cited around work and leisure balance

“Joseph Pieper writing after World War II wrote an amazing book, Leisure, The Basis of Culture, contemplating the question of why people are just throwing themselves into work after terrible events.”

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Trigger: work and leisure balance

For: Individuals seeking a deeper understanding of work-life balance and the philosophy of leisure.

Key quote: “And his conclusion was that we kind of lost touch with this more ancient version of leisure.”

The host references Joseph Pieper's book to explore the historical perspective on work and leisure, emphasizing how modern society has lost touch with the true meaning of leisure. Pieper argues that leisure should be an active engagement with the world, contrasting it with the contemporary view of leisure as mere idleness.

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Michael Gerber

Best for Aspiring entrepreneurs and creatives seeking balanceOften cited around solopreneur journey challenges

“There's that story from the E-Myth Revisited about a lady who starts baking cakes, loves making cakes, and then gets caught up in managing her business instead of doing what she loves.”

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Trigger: solopreneur journey challenges

For: Aspiring entrepreneurs and creatives seeking balance

Key quote: “There's that story from the E-Myth Revisited about a lady who starts baking cakes, I think.”

The host references 'The E-Myth Revisited' to illustrate the pitfalls of ambition in entrepreneurship, using the example of a woman who loses her passion for baking while managing a growing business. This serves as a cautionary tale for those who may be pursuing success at the expense of their true interests and passions.

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Max Weber

Best for Individuals interested in the philosophy of work and its cultural implicationsOften cited around work and fulfillment

“Max Weber in his book, The Protestant Ethic, writes about how before the 1500s, basically, like, a person did not desire to like have work as the most central thing in their life.”

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Trigger: work and fulfillment

For: Individuals interested in the philosophy of work and its cultural implications

Key quote: “Well, it's, it's not true everywhere, right? So there's Max Weber in his book, The Protestant Ethic.”

The host discusses the historical perspective on work, referencing Max Weber's insights from 'The Protestant Ethic'. They highlight how the Protestant Reformation shifted the perception of work from a means to an end, emphasizing its centrality in modern life.

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The Company of One

Paul Jarvis

Best for Solo creators and entrepreneurs seeking balanceOften cited around solo creator path

“The speaker mentions being inspired by Paul Jarvis, who wrote 'The Company of One', and references a famous blog post called 'Enough'.”

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Trigger: solo creator path

For: Solo creators and entrepreneurs seeking balance

Key quote: “I so in my book, like I'm inspired by Paul Jarvis. He wrote The Company of One.”

The host references 'The Company of One' to emphasize the importance of aligning ambition with personal well-being. They discuss how the pressure to constantly achieve can lead to burnout, and how Jarvis's ideas resonate with their own reflections on ambition and fulfillment.

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Agnes Callard's

Best for Individuals seeking personal growth and deeper understanding of their ambitionsOften cited around limits of ambition

“You talk about the limits of ambition. Have you ever read any of Agnes Callard's? She's amazing. She'd be fantastic.”

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Trigger: limits of ambition

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Key quote: “she would argue, given that we already know what we value, how we value that and that we value it currently, there's not as much to be gained on the journey.”

The host mentions Agnes Callard to highlight the distinction between ambition and aspiration, emphasizing that ambition targets known values while aspiration seeks personal growth. This philosophical perspective encourages listeners to reflect on their own values and the deeper meaning behind their pursuits.

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Leisure, The Basis of Culture

Modern Wisdom · 21:29

And his conclusion was that we kind of lost touch with this more ancient version of leisure.

The E-Myth Revisited

Modern Wisdom · 46:51

There's that story from the E-Myth Revisited about a lady who starts baking cakes, I think.

The Protestant Ethic

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Well, it's, it's not true everywhere, right? So there's Max Weber in his book, The Protestant Ethic.

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