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#466 - Matthew Fray - How To Avoid Destroying Your Relationship

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Matthew Fray

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How Not to Die Alone Mate

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How Not to Die Alone Mate

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How Not to Die Alone

Logan Ury

I had the director of behavioral science at Hinge on the show, a couple of weeks ago, a lady called Logan Ury's just written a new book, How Not to D…

Mate

Jeffrey Miller

What you need to do is say, look, I understand. I hear you. I am here.

Guest: Matthew Fray

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Matthew Fray is a relationship coach, blogger and an author. Matthew's marriage ended because he left a glass next to the sink. Well, not exactly, but near enough. He spent the next few years recovering, reflecting and writing about how a relationship can fall apart without anything catastrophic happening, and also working out how to stop it from happening again. Expect to learn how even good people can be bad spouses, why men and women aren't speaking the same language in most relationships, why most divorces are initiated by women, why trust is even more important than love, why peace and contentment are better life goals than happiness, and much more... Extra Stuff: Buy This Is How Your Marriage Ends - https://amzn.to/3L78KzK Check out Matthew's website - https://amzn.to/3L78KzK Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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How Not to Die Alone

Logan Ury

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Jeffrey Miller

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The conversation centers on intentional dating.
A second recurring theme is male and female depression.
Referenced books include How Not to Die Alone by Logan Ury and Mate by Jeffrey Miller.
The strongest audience signal points to Individuals seeking to improve their dating life and relationship choices. and Individuals seeking to understand gender differences in emotional processing.

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intentional dating(1)male and female depression(1)

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Deep Dive(1)Passing Reference(1)

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How Not to Die Alone

Logan Ury

Best for Individuals seeking to improve their dating life and relationship choices.Often cited around intentional dating

“Logan Ury's just written a new book, How Not to Die Alone. And she said she had some really interesting insights about, she called it intentional dating.”

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Sentiment: Deep Dive

Trigger: intentional dating

For: Individuals seeking to improve their dating life and relationship choices.

Key quote: “I had the director of behavioral science at Hinge on the show, a couple of weeks ago, a lady called Logan Ury's just written a new book, How Not to Die Alone.”

The host discusses the importance of being intentional in dating, referencing Logan Ury's book to highlight insights on partner selection. They emphasize that taking responsibility for one's dating choices can lead to healthier relationships and a more hopeful outlook.

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Mate

Jeffrey Miller

Best for Individuals seeking to understand gender differences in emotional processingOften cited around male and female depression

“In 2013, he released another book called mate with Tucker Max. I have that book. Yeah.”

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Sentiment: Passing Reference

Trigger: male and female depression

For: Individuals seeking to understand gender differences in emotional processing

Key quote: “What you need to do is say, look, I understand. I hear you. I am here.”

The host mentions the book 'Mate' to highlight the differences in how men and women experience and process emotions, particularly in the context of depression. This reference serves to illustrate the need for understanding and communication between genders in emotional situations.

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