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Modern WisdomFeb 20, 2021

#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner

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#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner includes mentions of Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss, The Argument Hangover, Carol Dweck, and Wayne Dyer, with indexed source context and timestamps where available.

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Indexed context: The host highlights Chris Voss's technique of mirroring as a crucial communication tool in relationships. This method can enhance understanding and c…

Indexed context: The host discusses the concept of 'argument hangover' as a significant emotional period following disagreements in relationships. This book is mentio…

Indexed context: The host mentions Carol Dweck in the context of seeking a partner who is open to self-development. This reference highlights the importance of growth…

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Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman are relationship coaches and authors. Success in relationships can be as much to do with dealing with disagreements as finding common ground, so arguing well might actually be an important skill we need to develop. Expect to learn what an argument hangover is, how you can make a disagreement with your partner better before it's even begun, how you can turn conflict into a good thing, why emotional triggers are a danger and much more...
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Never Split the Difference
Chris Voss

The host highlights Chris Voss's technique of mirroring as a crucial communication tool in relationships. This method…

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The Argument Hangover

The host discusses the concept of 'argument hangover' as a significant emotional period following disagreements in re…

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Carol Dweck

The host mentions Carol Dweck in the context of seeking a partner who is open to self-development. This reference hig…

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Wayne Dyer

The host mentions Wayne Dyer as part of a broader discussion on personal growth and the importance of being open to s…

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Neville Goddard

The host mentions Neville Goddard in the context of personal growth and consciousness. They reflect on their own jour…

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  • The conversation centers on self-development in relationships.
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  • Referenced books include Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss and The Argument Hangover.
  • Related interests include Individuals looking to improve their communication skills and Individuals seeking to improve their relationship dynamics.

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Individuals looking to improve their communication skillsIndividuals seeking to improve their relationship dynamicsIndividuals seeking personal growth in relationshipsIndividuals interested in personal growth and relationship dynamicsIndividuals interested in personal growth and relationship dynamics.

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Best for Individuals looking to improve their communication skillsOften cited around communication in relationships

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The conversation references Chris Voss's work and his technique called mirroring, which is discussed in the context of communication in relationships.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals looking to improve their communication skills
Indexed context: his technique called mirroring, which is discussed in the context of communication in relationships.
The host highlights Chris Voss's technique of mirroring as a crucial communication tool in relationships. This method can enhance understanding and connection between individuals.
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Best for Individuals seeking to improve their relationship dynamicsOften cited around relationship conflict resolution

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The speakers mention being in book promotion mode for 'The Argument Hangover' and discuss preorder bonuses for it.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals seeking to improve their relationship dynamics
Indexed context: The argument hangover specifically would be that period of time between having a disagreement.
The host discusses the concept of 'argument hangover' as a significant emotional period following disagreements in relationships. This book is mentioned to highlight the importance of understanding and resolving conflicts to maintain healthy connections.
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Best for Individuals seeking personal growth in relationshipsOften cited around self-development in relationships

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The mention of Carol Dweck suggests a focus on personal development and growth, indicating the importance of being open to learning and evolving in relationships.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Individuals seeking personal growth in relationships
Indexed context: do you just say, on your first date, do you just force them to read Carol Dweck?
The host mentions Carol Dweck in the context of seeking a partner who is open to self-development. This reference highlights the importance of growth and evolution in personal relationships.
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Best for Individuals interested in personal growth and relationship dynamicsOften cited around self-development in relationships

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Wayne Dyer is referenced in the context of reading about consciousness, highlighting a journey towards personal development and spiritual growth.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Individuals interested in personal growth and relationship dynamics
Indexed context: I wasn't yet open to reading, like, let's say, Wayne Dyer or Neville Goddard about consciousness yet.
The host mentions Wayne Dyer as part of a broader discussion on personal growth and the importance of being open to self-development in relationships. They reflect on their own journey and how they weren't initially open to reading Dyer's work but have since embraced it.
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Best for Individuals interested in personal growth and relationship dynamics.Often cited around self-development in relationships

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Neville Goddard is mentioned alongside Wayne Dyer, indicating a focus on consciousness and personal development literature.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Individuals interested in personal growth and relationship dynamics.
Indexed context: I wasn't yet open to reading, like, let's say, Wayne Dyer or Neville Goddard about consciousness yet.
The host mentions Neville Goddard in the context of personal growth and consciousness. They reflect on their own journey towards being open to such ideas and how it relates to relationships.
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Never Split the Difference
Modern Wisdom · 21:06
Indexed context: The host highlights Chris Voss's technique of mirroring as a crucial communication tool in relationships. This method can enhance understanding and c…
The Argument Hangover
Modern Wisdom · 54:16
Indexed context: The host discusses the concept of 'argument hangover' as a significant emotional period following disagreements in relationships. This book is mentio…
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Modern Wisdom · 11:38
Indexed context: The host mentions Carol Dweck in the context of seeking a partner who is open to self-development. This reference highlights the importance of growth…
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Never Split the Difference cover
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Never Split the Difference
Chris Voss

The host highlights Chris Voss's technique of mirroring as a crucial communication tool in relationships. This method can enhance understanding and…

Direct Amazon listing · affiliate link
The Argument Hangover cover
Mentioned at 54:16
The Argument Hangover

The host discusses the concept of 'argument hangover' as a significant emotional period following disagreements in relationships. This book is ment…

Direct Amazon listing · affiliate link
Carol Dweck cover
Mentioned at 11:38
Carol Dweck

The host mentions Carol Dweck in the context of seeking a partner who is open to self-development. This reference highlights the importance of grow…

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