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Modern WisdomOct 26, 2020

#237 - Chris Voss - How To Negotiate Like An FBI Agent

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Guest: Chris Voss

Notable books mentioned: mirror thinking by Fiona Merton, The Talent Code by Daniel Coyle, Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss

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#237 - Chris Voss - How To Negotiate Like An FBI Agent mentions mirror thinking by Fiona Merton, The Talent Code by Daniel Coyle, and Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss with timestamps, quotes, and episode context.

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mirror thinking
Fiona Merton

The new book is called mirror thinking, which is exclusively about the mirror system.

The Talent Code
Daniel Coyle

Coyle's contention is that everything is learned.

How am I supposed to do that? I mean, it alters everything in the moment because what the other side hears when you say that is I'd love to comply, b…

Guest: Chris Voss
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Chris Voss is the Ex Lead International Kidnapping Negotiator for the FBI, a CEO & author. Chris is someone who has negotiated under the highest imaginable pressure with kidnappers, bank robbers and terrorists. Expect to learn the single most powerful phrase in communication, how to say no more effectively, how to improve your confidence during a discussion, Chris' best strategies for de escalating a disagreement, his opinion on Trump's communication style and much more...
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  • The strongest audience signal points to Leaders in business and individuals interested in psychology and Individuals looking to improve their negotiation skills.

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Leaders in business and individuals interested in psychologyIndividuals looking to improve their negotiation skills

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mirror thinking
Fiona Merton
Best for Leaders in business and individuals interested in psychologyOften cited around mirror system in psychology

The new book is called mirror thinking, which is exclusively about the mirror system. It might be an interesting read for yourself, or you can listen to on the episode.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Leaders in business and individuals interested in psychology
Key quote: The new book is called mirror thinking, which is exclusively about the mirror system.
The host mentions 'Mirror Thinking' by Fiona Merton to highlight the importance of the mirror system in calming oneself and improving negotiation skills. The book provides insights into how our brain's mirror neurons can influence our behavior and interactions with others.
ASIN: 1472975804
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The Talent Code
Daniel Coyle
Best for Individuals looking to improve their negotiation skillsOften cited around confidence in negotiations

Daniel Coyle wrote a great book called The Talent Code. Coyle's contention is that everything is learned.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Individuals looking to improve their negotiation skills
Key quote: Coyle's contention is that everything is learned.
The host mentions 'The Talent Code' to emphasize that confidence and skills in negotiations can be developed through practice. Daniel Coyle's argument that most skills are learned supports the idea that anyone can improve their negotiation abilities with the right training.
ASIN: 055380684X
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Best for Individuals looking to improve their negotiation skillsOften cited around negotiation techniques

The book discusses negotiation techniques, including how to say no productively, with a focus on the phrase 'how am I supposed to do that?' as a powerful tool.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals looking to improve their negotiation skills
Key quote: How am I supposed to do that? I mean, it alters everything in the moment because what the other side hears when you say that is I'd love to comply, but you're giving me an impossible task.
The host discusses the importance of a specific phrase from 'Never Split the Difference' that can transform the way people say no in negotiations. This phrase not only helps in maintaining a collaborative atmosphere but also encourages the other party to reconsider their demands.
ASIN: B01COR1GM2
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Mentioned at 13:35
mirror thinking
Fiona Merton

The host mentions 'Mirror Thinking' by Fiona Merton to highlight the importance of the mirror system in calming oneself and improving negotiation s…

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Mentioned at 10:07
The Talent Code
Daniel Coyle

The host mentions 'The Talent Code' to emphasize that confidence and skills in negotiations can be developed through practice. Daniel Coyle's argum…

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Mentioned at 21:59
Never Split the Difference
Chris Voss

The host discusses the importance of a specific phrase from 'Never Split the Difference' that can transform the way people say no in negotiations.…

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Man on Fire

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Denzel Washington's character trains a little girl to be a better swimmer, emphasizing that there's only trained and untrained.