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Modern WisdomMay 21, 2018

#014 - Self Confidence

Summary, books mentioned, transcript quotes, and timestamps for #014 - Self Confidence with Jonny Watson and Yusef Smith on Modern Wisdom.

Notable books mentioned: Lying by Sam Harris, His Dark Materials by Philip Pullman, The Confidence Book by School of Life, The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

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In #014 - Self Confidence, Jonny Watson and Yusef Smith and the hosts mention Lying by Sam Harris, His Dark Materials by Philip Pullman, The Confidence Book by School of Life, and The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz with timestamps, quotes, and episode context.

3 books from this episode
Lying
Sam Harris

Anyone who's listening, Lying by Sam Harris is a one-hour read.

His Dark Materials
Philip Pullman

Then the woman says it in the book, she says, it will take you a lifetime to learn, but your depth of understanding will be infinitely greater than i…

The Confidence Book
School of Life

I think one of the main things that you can take away from confidence is that the desire for us all to hold onto our own dignity is one of the key el…

Episode summary
Jonny & Yusef from PropaneFitness.com join me this week as we delve into the world of confidence. Expect to learn whether confidence is an innate talent or a skill that can be learned, what principles we have implemented to improve our confidence, what the term "self conscious" truly means, and why Jonny has been bullied into growing a top knot. Check out everything I recommend from books to products and help support the podcast at no extra cost to you by shopping through this link - https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Join the discussion with me and other like minded listeners in the episode comments on the MW YouTube Channel or message me... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ModernWisdomPodcast Email: https://www.chriswillx.com/contact
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  • Referenced books include Lying by Sam Harris and His Dark Materials by Philip Pullman.
  • The strongest audience signal points to Individuals seeking personal development and self-improvement. and Readers interested in personal development and social dynamics.

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Deep Dive(6)Highly Recommended(1)Passing Reference(1)
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Individuals seeking personal development and self-improvement.Readers interested in personal development and social dynamicsIndividuals seeking to improve their self-confidence and understand social dynamics.Individuals seeking personal development and resilience in social situations.Individuals seeking to improve their confidence and self-perception.Individuals interested in psychology and personal development

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Lying
Sam Harris
Best for Individuals seeking personal development and self-improvement.Often cited around importance of honesty

Lying by Sam Harris is a one-hour read. It's a conceptual justification for why you should never, ever lie. He discusses the implications of lying, including white lies.

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Sentiment: Highly Recommended
For: Individuals seeking personal development and self-improvement.
Key quote: Anyone who's listening, Lying by Sam Harris is a one-hour read.
The host mentions 'Lying' by Sam Harris to emphasize the significance of truthfulness in personal development. He believes that understanding the concepts in this book can help individuals confront their realities rather than avoid them.
ASIN: B00FK4ZSJO
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His Dark Materials
Philip Pullman
Best for Readers interested in personal development and social dynamicsOften cited around honesty and social skills

It's a series of books by Philip Pullman. They butchered it when they tried to turn the first one into a film called Northern Lights. Considering that I was a massive fan of the book.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Readers interested in personal development and social dynamics
Key quote: Then the woman says it in the book, she says, it will take you a lifetime to learn, but your depth of understanding will be infinitely greater than it ever was before.
The host references 'His Dark Materials' to illustrate the journey of personal development and the loss of innate skills due to social pressures. This connection highlights the complexities of navigating honesty and confidence in social situations.
ASIN: B0000W6SPE
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The Confidence Book
School of Life
Best for Individuals seeking to improve their self-confidence and understand social dynamics.Often cited around confidence in social situations

The book discusses the ability to ride the waves of life and how perspective changes with experience, emphasizing resilience in the face of challenges.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals seeking to improve their self-confidence and understand social dynamics.
Key quote: I think one of the main things that you can take away from confidence is that the desire for us all to hold onto our own dignity is one of the key elements of why people have a lack of confidence.
The host discusses the importance of confidence and how it can be influenced by body language and social perceptions. They reference 'The Confidence Book' to highlight the idea that everyone, regardless of status, experiences vulnerability and self-doubt.
ASIN: 0995573670
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The Four Agreements
Don Miguel Ruiz
Best for Individuals seeking personal development and resilience in social situations.Often cited around confidence and vulnerability

The discussion references the four agreements from Don Miguel Ruiz, particularly focusing on the idea of not taking things personally.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals seeking personal development and resilience in social situations.
Key quote: Don't take anything personally.
The host discusses the concept of confidence and how it can be independent of outcomes, referencing 'The Four Agreements' to emphasize the importance of not taking things personally. This perspective aligns with the idea that one's self-worth should not be tied to the reactions of others.
ASIN: 1878424319
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12 Rules for Life
Jordan Peterson
Best for Individuals seeking to improve their confidence and self-perception.Often cited around confidence and perception

The whole first chapter of 12 rules for life is not a million miles away from this.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals seeking to improve their confidence and self-perception.
Key quote: the whole first chapter of 12 rules for life is not a million miles away from this.
The host mentions '12 Rules for Life' to highlight the importance of posture and self-perception in building confidence. They draw a parallel between the book's themes and the concept of adopting a power stance to improve one's mental state and how others perceive you.
ASIN: B0797Y87JC
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Best for Individuals interested in psychology and personal developmentOften cited around confidence and mastery

The discussion references mixed feelings about Jordan Peterson before reading his book, which suggests a specific work by him is being discussed.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals interested in psychology and personal development
Key quote: it's the world appearing the way that you planned it to be is it not something along those lines
The host discusses the concept of confidence and its relationship to mastery, referencing Jordan Peterson's ideas on how mastery involves consistent outcomes that align with one's expectations. This leads to a deeper exploration of the nuances of confidence, including the distinction between grounded confidence and delusional confidence.
ASIN: B0797Y87JC
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Best for Individuals struggling with confidence and self-acceptanceOften cited around confidence and self-perception

In the confidence book, I think it might be Erasmus again as well, says something to the effect of.

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Sentiment: Deep Dive
For: Individuals struggling with confidence and self-acceptance
Key quote: he was saying like as soon as we recognise that and we stop holding ourselves to the standards of our strengths and we realise that if you if you're in a foreign country and you ask someone for directions thinking that you're going to get shot down because they'll be like what a prick silly tourist and you just accept that that's the case anyway then it's a pleasant surprise if you don't
The host mentions Erasmus in relation to the concept of embracing one's folly as a means to build confidence. This reference highlights the importance of recognizing and accepting our imperfections to alleviate self-deprecating thoughts.
ASIN: 0691165645
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Confidence
Al Enderbottom
Best for Individuals interested in personal development and self-confidence.Often cited around discussion about confidence

The speaker mentions a miniature book called 'Confidence' by Al Enderbottom, discussing its content on elements contributing to confidence in the modern world.

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Sentiment: Passing Reference
For: Individuals interested in personal development and self-confidence.
Key quote: I think confidence no hold on what were you saying Chris said pariah is that the end of it I'm not being confident I meant paragon right I meant paragon.
The host briefly mentions the book 'Confidence' while discussing the concept of confidence in relation to a friend's critique. It serves as a light-hearted segue into a broader conversation about self-presentation and personal style.
ASIN: B0C1HFNPJZ
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Lying cover
Mentioned at 31:44
Lying
Sam Harris

The host mentions 'Lying' by Sam Harris to emphasize the significance of truthfulness in personal development. He believes that understanding the c…

His Dark Materials cover
Mentioned at 51:49
His Dark Materials
Philip Pullman

The host references 'His Dark Materials' to illustrate the journey of personal development and the loss of innate skills due to social pressures. T…

The Confidence Book cover
Mentioned at 1:33:40
The Confidence Book
School of Life

The host discusses the importance of confidence and how it can be influenced by body language and social perceptions. They reference 'The Confidenc…

Movies & Documentaries Mentioned

Movie

Northern Lights

Confidence: 90%

They butchered it when they tried to turn the first one into a film called Northern Lights. It was terrible considering that I was a massive fan of the book.

Movie

Everest

Confidence: 90%

The film is mentioned in relation to a scene where a writer is picked up from Everest by a helicopter pilot.

Movie

The Gambler

Confidence: 90%

The discussion references a film where the mentor advises to get 'fuck you money' for financial security.